1 Timothy 3:8
8Servants, in the same way, must be reverent, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for money,
Likewise ties deacons to the same moral air as overseers, scaled to their serving work. Double-tongued and greedy for dishonest gain are especially lethal where tables and money are involved.
Dignity is not stiffness; it is a life that can be trusted with the church’s practical mercy. Grace that saves still insists a servant’s mouth and purse match the gospel.
Likewise: the deacon is not a lower-character track. Wine and dishonest gain are named because the office touches both cup and coin.
God cares how serving is staffed. The church’s mercy-work is still holy work, fenced by the same Lord.