Genesis 2:18
18The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him.”
The first “not good” in Genesis is aloneness: the LORD God will make a helper comparable to him. Wesley: without a being of his own rank, the man is truly alone among angels and brutes. Clarke: ezer kenegdo is counterpart—like himself, neither inferior nor superior.
Classical Arminians hear companionship as original goodness, not a post-fall concession. Helper names strength alongside, not a menial add-on; marriage will be covenant between equals in nature, a fit corresponding to the man, sincerely given for mutual life.
God Himself diagnoses what is not good and promises a helper comparable to him. Calvin: Moses notes some equality; she is counterpart, the inseparable associate of life, not formed only for propagation or as a “necessary evil.”
Marriage is divine design for mutual society, the best support of life, with mutual obligation—the woman a companion-help, the man her head not as tyrant but as leader who owes her in return. The institution is good even before any fall-remedy is needed.