Genesis 3:16
16To the woman he said, “I will greatly multiply your pain in childbirth. You will bear children in pain. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”
Pain is multiplied in childbearing; children will still come, but through pain. “Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” After the fall, the closest bond is disordered—not erased.
Wesleyan Arminians hear consequence, not a new creation ordinance of domination. This is what sin does to marriage; it is not a license for abuse. In Christ the curse-tinged rule is to be redeemed, not baptized as God’s ideal for husbands.
The woman’s sentence is pain and a bent relationship: desire and rule now grate rather than serve. Both camps historically refuse to treat this as permission to harm.
Reformed readers often hear creation order intensified as judgment—headship was not invented here (2:18–24), but after the fall it is heavy. The LORD names a wound He did not author as sin, even as He remains Lord over the household that must now live east of innocence.