Passage

Genesis 31

Verses 1–21 WEB Voices

Jacob hears Laban's sons charge that he has taken their father's wealth, and he sees Laban's face has turned. The LORD tells him to return to his fathers' land with the promise, "I will be with you." In the field he tells Rachel and Leah of wages changed ten times, of a dream of striped and spotted goats, and of the God of Bethel who calls him home. The sisters agree, Jacob sets out for Canaan, Rachel steals the household gods, and he crosses the Euphrates toward Gilead without telling Laban.

Genesis 31:1

1Jacob heard Laban’s sons’ words, saying, “Jacob has taken away all that was our father’s. He has obtained all this wealth from that which was our father’s.”

Arminian

Hostile speech reaches Jacob as accusation, not rumor God ignores. Grace does not erase the family conflict he must now face and answer.

Reformed

What Jacob hears is already inside providence: envy in Laban's house becomes the pressure that will send him toward Canaan.

Genesis 31:2

2Jacob saw the expression on Laban’s face, and, behold, it was not toward him as before.

Arminian

Jacob reads a changed face and must decide under that light. Favor withdrawn is an earnest warning, not a script that cancels wise action.

Reformed

The Lord lets Jacob see Laban's regard cool. Sight here is mercy that prepares obedience before the spoken command of v. 3.

Genesis 31:3

3The LORD said to Jacob, “Return to the land of your fathers, and to your relatives, and I will be with you.”

Arminian

The LORD's word is a serious summons: return, and I will be with you. Presence is promised to the one who goes; the call invites trust, not delay.

Reformed

Return is God's initiative, presence His pledged accompaniment. The journey home is covenant purpose, not Jacob's improvisation.

Key contrast Both hear a true command with a true promise. Arminians emphasize a sincere call Jacob must obey; Reformed readers stress God's effectual word that both sends and goes with him.

Genesis 31:4

4Jacob sent and called Rachel and Leah to the field to his flock,

Arminian

He gathers his wives into the field—ordinary means, honest counsel. Faith does not skip the household conversation God now requires.

Reformed

The field meeting is the appointed means. God who commanded return also orders the testimony that will move Rachel and Leah.

Genesis 31:5

5and said to them, “I see the expression on your father’s face, that it is not toward me as before; but the God of my father has been with me.

Arminian

Jacob names both Laban's frown and his father's God. The contrast invites the wives to trust presence already proven, not merely to flee a hard man.

Reformed

Favor lost with Laban sits under favor kept by the God of Isaac. Jacob's confession locates the story in covenant accompaniment, not in luck with flocks.

Genesis 31:6

6You know that I have served your father with all of my strength.

Arminian

The wives know his labor. Honest toil is a stewardship; grace does not mock hard work even when the master cheats.

Reformed

Strength spent in Laban's service is on the record God will later cite. Human labor is the means; the outcome will be the Lord's.

Genesis 31:7

7Your father has deceived me, and changed my wages ten times, but God didn’t allow him to hurt me.

Arminian

Cheat and wage-changing are culpable acts; God not permitting harm is protecting grace. Both Laban's injustice and God's restraint are true.

Reformed

Ten changes of wages cannot breach the hedge God sets. Harm is withheld by permission denied, not by Laban's sudden fairness.

Genesis 31:8

8If he said, ‘The speckled will be your wages,’ then all the flock bore speckled. If he said, ‘The streaked will be your wages,’ then all the flock bore streaked.

Arminian

Each new wage-rule meets a matching birth. Jacob reports God's timely help so the wives can judge and consent, not be dragged blind.

Reformed

The flocks answer Laban's terms as if the terms themselves were already in God's hand. Breeding follows the promise more than the contract.

Genesis 31:9

9Thus God has taken away your father’s livestock, and given them to me.

Arminian

Transfer of livestock is named as God's taking and giving. Wealth is gift, not license to forget the Giver or the family still owed peace.

Reformed

God is the subject of both verbs: taken and given. Jacob's increase is allotment under providence, reversing Laban's schemes.

Genesis 31:10

10During mating season, I lifted up my eyes, and saw in a dream, and behold, the male goats which leaped on the flock were streaked, speckled, and grizzled.

Arminian

A dream in breeding season interprets what his rods had seemed to work. God teaches Jacob to read the increase as vision, not mere technique.

Reformed

Lifted eyes and given sight: the mating goats are shown, not guessed. Providence interprets the flock before Jacob explains it to his wives.

Genesis 31:11

11The angel of God said to me in the dream, ‘Jacob,’ and I said, ‘Here I am.’

Arminian

Named and answering, Jacob stands available. 'Here I am' is a response to an address—grace that calls and a man who answers.

Reformed

The angel of God initiates by name. Jacob's 'Here I am' is the creature's place under a word that already has him in view.

Genesis 31:12

12He said, ‘Now lift up your eyes, and behold, all the male goats which leap on the flock are streaked, speckled, and grizzled, for I have seen all that Laban does to you.

Arminian

God has seen Laban's doing and shows Jacob the marked goats. Sight is given so he may trust and go, not so he may gloat over a cheated father-in-law.

Reformed

I have seen: the Lord's watching precedes Jacob's noticing. The marked sires are God's answer to Laban's injustice, already in motion.

Genesis 31:13

13I am the God of Bethel, where you anointed a pillar, where you vowed a vow to me. Now arise, get out from this land, and return to the land of your birth.’”

Arminian

Bethel's God recalls the pillar and the vow, then commands arise and return. The old promise still claims Jacob; leaving Paddan-aram is owed obedience.

Reformed

Identity first: I am the God of Bethel. The vow Jacob made is held by the God who now effectually sends him home to the land of kindred.

Key contrast Both tie return to Bethel's God and Jacob's vow. Arminians emphasize a vow that still obliges a willing going; Reformed interpreters press the God of Bethel who keeps and now performs the sending.

Genesis 31:14

14Rachel and Leah answered him, “Is there yet any portion or inheritance for us in our father’s house?

Arminian

The sisters ask a hard, honest question about portion. Their consent will be a yes, not silence under a husband's fiat.

Reformed

Even the daughters' grievance is gathered into the return. God turns empty inheritance in Laban's house into willingness for Canaan.

Genesis 31:15

15Aren’t we considered as foreigners by him? For he has sold us, and has also used up our money.

Arminian

Sold and treated as foreigners, they name Laban's sin without excuse. Family loyalty does not require denying devouring greed.

Reformed

Laban's sale of his daughters becomes part of the case God is already judging. Their foreignness at home readies them for the road of promise.

Genesis 31:16

16For all the riches which God has taken away from our father are ours and our children’s. Now then, whatever God has said to you, do.”

Arminian

They assign the wealth to God, then to their children, and they tell Jacob to do whatever God has said. The word is met with a sincere, grace-enabled yes.

Reformed

Whatever God has said, do: the wives ratify the command already spoken. Consent itself is fruit of the God who took and gave.

Genesis 31:17

17Then Jacob rose up, and set his sons and his wives on the camels,

Arminian

He arises and mounts the household. Obedience here is feet and camels, not only a remembered dream.

Reformed

Arose is the verb of Bethel's command now enacted. The family is placed on camels because the Lord has set their faces toward home.

Genesis 31:18

18and he took away all his livestock, and all his possessions which he had gathered, including the livestock which he had gained in Paddan Aram, to go to Isaac his father, to the land of Canaan.

Arminian

Flocks gained in Paddan-aram now travel toward Isaac. The destination is covenant land, and the going is a chosen act under God's word.

Reformed

Canaan and Isaac name the true end of the drive. Property follows the promise; Paddan-aram was never the rest God meant.

Genesis 31:19

19Now Laban had gone to shear his sheep; and Rachel stole the teraphim that were her father’s.

Arminian

Sheep-shearing covers the flight; Rachel's theft is still theft. Grace in the return does not baptize teraphim in the saddle.

Reformed

Providence opens a window in Laban's absence; Rachel's stealing remains sin God will later expose. The road home is holy; the stolen gods are not.

Genesis 31:20

20Jacob deceived Laban the Syrian, in that he didn’t tell him that he was running away.

Arminian

Unannounced flight is named as trickery. Even a commanded return can be carried out with mixed means that still need truth-telling later.

Reformed

The narrator records the deceit without erasing the command. God will still guard Jacob, and still let Laban's charge land in the next scene.

Genesis 31:21

21So he fled with all that he had. He rose up, passed over the River, and set his face toward the mountain of Gilead.

Arminian

Flight, river, and a face set toward Gilead: the journey is now public. Setting the face is the will answering the God who said return.

Reformed

Crossing the Euphrates is the geographic seal of the sending. Gilead lies ahead because the Lord of Bethel has turned Jacob's face that way.

Historic quotes

Voices from both camps

Classic comment on Jacob fleeing Laban, and the God of Bethel sending him home, from both sides of the debate.

Arminian Notable voices

“The Lord said unto Jacob, Return and I will be with thee-though Jacob had met with very hard usage, yet he would not quit his place 'till God bid him. He came thither by orders from heaven, and there he would slay 'till he was ordered back. The direction he had from heaven is more fully related in the account he gives of it to his wives, where he tells them of the dream he had about the cattle, and the wonderful increase of those of his colour; and how the angel of God in that dream instructed him that it was not by chance, nor by his own policy, that he obtained that great advantage but by the providence of God, who had taken notice of the hardships Laban had put upon him, and in performance of his promise.”
John Wesley · Explanatory Notes upon the Old Testament (on Gen 31:3)

Reformed Notable voices

“Although Jacob ardently desired his own country, and was continually thinking of his return to it; yet his admirable patience appears in this, that he suspends his purpose till a new occasion presents itself. I do not, however, deny, that some imperfection was mixed with this virtue, in that he did not make more haste to return; but that the promise of God was always retained its his mind will shortly appear.”
John Calvin · Commentary on Genesis (on Gen 31:1)

Quotations lightly abridged for length; wording follows standard English translations of the sources named.

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