Genesis 32:22
22He rose up that night, and took his two wives, and his two servants, and his eleven sons, and crossed over the ford of the Jabbok.
He moves the family toward the feared meeting before he is finished with God.
Love of the household is free agency. Grace does not freeze him on the near bank.
The Jabbok is named because the wrestle is coming. Family is sent while the night still belongs to prayer.
God’s providence brings Jacob to the ford at the right hour. The heir will meet God before he meets Esau.