Passage

Matthew 5

Verses 31–32 WEB Voices

In another Sermon antithesis, Jesus takes the familiar permission of a divorce certificate and presses marriage toward the heart of the covenant. The King who fulfills the Law will not let disciples treat a spouse as disposable paper—and He names the adultery that casual divorce and remarriage can create, while marking sexual immorality as the stated exception.

Matthew 5:31

31“It was also said, ‘Whoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorce,’

Arminian

Jesus recalls a received saying tied to Deuteronomy’s certificate practice. The old word regulated a hard reality; it did not bless hardness of heart as ideal. Disciples already “know” the paperwork path.

The note struck is continuity with Torah’s civil provision and a summons to listen again. The certificate is not dismissed as fiction; the question is whether Jesus’ hearers will stop at legal exit or receive His fuller claim on covenant faithfulness.

Reformed

“It was also said” sets the tradition Jesus will deepen. Moses’ certificate restrained chaos in a fallen world; it never redefined marriage as a contract one may discard at will.

The Law-giver interprets His own Word. What follows will not erase Moses but expose how far the King’s standard reaches when hardness of heart is no longer the assumed frame.

Matthew 5:32

32but I tell you that whoever puts away his wife, except for the cause of sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is put away commits adultery.

Arminian

“But I tell you” raises the bar from certificate to consequence. Unjust divorce can place a wife in an adulterous position; marrying a divorced woman (in the sense Jesus targets) is likewise named adultery—except for the cause of sexual immorality (porneia).

The warning is earnest and the exception is true. Responsible discipleship honors marriage, refuses casual dismissal, and still receives Christ’s word where covenant has already been shattered by sexual immorality. Jesus protects the vulnerable spouse and will not baptize hardness of heart. Grace calls for repentance where we have treated marriage lightly—and for wise, Scripture-bound care in broken homes.

Reformed

Christ’s “I tell” claims authority over marriage itself. Divorce without the porneia exception “makes her an adulteress”; remarriage in that frame is adultery. The exception clause is Christ’s own merciful precision, not a loophole for convenience.

The King exposes how seriously God joins husband and wife. External legality cannot cleanse a heart that discards a spouse. The warning drives disciples to the grace that both upholds the one-flesh bond and shepherds the wreckage sin leaves—never as permission to despise the covenant Christ defends.

Key contrast Both affirm Jesus’ high view of marriage, the seriousness of adultery language, and the stated exception for sexual immorality. Arminians stress grace-enabled responsibility to honor the bond and to heed the exception where porneia has broken covenant; Reformed interpreters usually stress the Law-giver’s exposure of hard hearts and the need for grace that upholds marriage beyond mere certificate compliance.

Historic quotes

Voices from both camps

Older voices from both traditions on Matthew 5:31–32.

Arminian Notable voices

“Let him give her a writing of divorce - Which the scribes and Pharisees allowed men to do on any trifling occasion. Causeth her to commit adultery - If she marry again.”
John Wesley · Explanatory Notes upon the New Testament (on Matt 5:31–32)

Reformed Notable voices

“As a more suitable occasion for discussing and explaining this doctrine at greater length will afterwards occur, (Matthew 19:9,) I shall now state briefly what Christ says in this passage. As the Jews falsely imagined that they discharged their whole duty toward God, when they kept the law in a national manner, so whatever the national law did not forbid, they foolishly supposed to be lawful.”
John Calvin · Commentary on a Harmony of the Evangelists (on Matt 5:31–32)

Quotations lightly abridged for length; wording follows standard English translations of the sources named.

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