Romans 7:1
1Or don’t you know, brothers (for I speak to men who know the law), that the law has dominion over a man for as long as he lives?
Paul speaks to men who know the law—Wesley: to the Jews chiefly. The law binds a man for as long as he lives: so long, and no longer. The law is spoken of, by a common figure, as a person, a husband, to which life and death are ascribed. He speaks indifferently of the law being dead to us, or we to it; the sense is the same.
Arminians hear the rule as pastoral: the condemning husband does not rule forever. Death ends the claim so that a new belonging is possible. The point is not a hidden list of who may later be loosed, but a known principle: those who have died with Christ are no longer bound as they were.
Calvin: the law was given to regulate the present life and belongs not to those who are dead; to this he subjoins that we are dead to it through the body of Christ. The dominion is while life lasts; death is the only release.
The principle is certain and already applied to those united to Christ. Binding-until-death is not a maybe. Those who have actually died with Him are actually free. The law’s condemning hold is ended by a death in union with Christ, not by a later choice to remain loosed.